By Steve Houghton, Lay Preacher Good Morning. I would like to begin with a paraphrase of New York Times columnist David Brooks as I heard him on NPR’s 1A on July 7, 2025. Mr. Brooks said; Over the last twenty years, we've seen a rise in mental health problems, a sharp rise in suicide. Thirty six percent of Americans say they feel lonely much of the time Forty five percent of high school students say they're persistently hopeless and despondent. The number of Americans who say they have no close friends is up by fourfold since February. And so we've become sadder as a country, and more distrustful. Social trust and interpersonal trust have been collapsing over the last two generations. And so when you feel sadder, you feel meaner because your loneliness is a form of insult to your dignity, and so you wanna lash out. And so I think our politics sort of flow directly out of, the decline we've seen in people's social, relational, and spiritual lives. End of paraphrase. Let me repeat that last line of David Brooks, “and so I think our politics sort of flow directly out of the decline we’ve seen in people’s social, relational, and spiritual lives.” We are here this morning to reverse that decline in our spiritual lives. We are here to re-assess how we are relating to the world and if we are, in fact, following the teachings of Jesus of Nazareth. We are here to reacquaint ourselves with the love and togetherness that Jesus always spoke of. In Hebrews, Paul is teaching us that the obedience of Abraham, Jacob and Issac was rewarded with God’s blessing and an abundance of descendants. Paul goes on to explain that even though they died before seeing the complete fulfillment of God’s promise they had faith that God would do what was promised. They recognized that they were strangers on earth and that “they desire a better country, that is a heavenly one.”(Hebrews 11:16). Do we have faith in that promise and do we desire a better, heavenly country? Jesus uses bridesmaids and servants in many of his teachings as examples of the importance of being prepared. His kind of being prepared is not a passive thing but is very active. “Be dressed for action and have your lamps lit.” I really enjoy the gospel when Jesus calls for action. There’s no personal salvation here. As Paul said this is a call to action in forming a new country, a heavenly one, a coming of the kingdom. So the question comes to us, what does it mean to be ready and to be dressed for action and have our lamps lit? That is really what I want to focus on in the readings this morning “Be dressed for action and have your lamps lit.” Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewis puts it this way. “I can see a bold new path led by a vision of the sacred goodness of humankind and the abundance of the planet’s resources…. You and I are the ones we’ve been waiting for to create better lives for ourselves and our communities and to build a better world—together. All we need is the courage to imagine, and the will to make it be so.”( Fierce Love: A Bold Path to Ferocious Courage and Rule-Breaking Kindness That Can Heal the World (Harmony Books, 2021), 14, 15.) Rev. Dr. Lewis’ words roll easily off the tongue but can be a bit less easy to execute. Early on in my involvement with Emmaus Companions and early in the prayer corner at Second Helpings I was sitting at our prayer corner when a guest I will call Bob came to me just before folks were called to get their food. I need you to understand that this was back when we would call individual tables to the service line and we expected folks to come when their table was called to keep the line moving efficiently. I started getting nervous since there didn’t seem to be enough time to get a prayer in before they started serving the food. Bob went on for several minutes describing how and why he wanted prayers for his daughter who was ill and living in another state. I started to cut Bob short and explained that food was being served. He looked me in the eye and told me that if he wanted food right away he would have waited in his seat but he came to me to pray for his daughter. To say I was embarrassed and caught up short would be an understatement. I quickly recovered and was able to lead Bob in a prayer for his daughter. Driving home I realized that I had put my need to keep things moving, to maintain the protocol of the meal, ahead of what our ministry was about; sharing Christ’s love. I had tried to approach serving others through a perspective of maintaining the established system. Fortunately, Bob, like many we serve, was not shy and quick to redirect my focus. And doesn’t that happen with most of us? We set out to help build a new country with an attitude focused on maintaining the status quo. One of the guidelines of Emmaus Companions is to shut up and listen. We need to hear what our companion is asking for or looking for. Focused on not stepping out of our comfort zone will cause us to misread or completely miss the other person’s need. How often have we joined the express lane in the supermarket only to see someone in front of us with a full cart? Stage whispered observations of “which checkout is this” and how “some people don’t know how to count to fifteen”, don’t really demonstrate having our lamps lit. It is possible that the customer with the oversized load is trying to get home as fast as possible to take care of a sick child. Perhaps being prepared will help us to smile and take the edge off that mom or dad as they red faced leave the supermarket. I was in the Energy Park with a number of folk including one gentleman I will call Mike. Mike had been homeless for over thirty years in several cities and towns in Massachusetts. He was looked up to by the people on the margins and saw himself as a mentor and guide to those newly homeless. We were talking about homeless experiences when he suddenly turned to me and demanded what right I had to be with this group of people. In the four or five seconds it took me to respond my mind went in a million directions. This is where the Holy Spirit usually steps in and saves my butt and this was no exception. I looked Mike in the eye and said something to the effect of “There was this teacher in ancient Israel who said all people were my brothers and sisters and I believe him.” Mike looked at me for what seemed like an hour but was really only about fifteen seconds then declared that he guessed that I did have a right to be there if that was the case. People have a right to challenge us when we are trying to do good works and it is important for us to have an understanding of what motivates our actions. If I had been caught up in trying to justify myself I am sure I would have failed in Mike’s eyes. I know that standing in front of a 6’ 4” man with a thousand foot stare that burns like a laser into the back of your head trying to make friends and offer a helping hand isn’t everyone’s cup of tea but for Alicia, Charlie, Dennis and I it is and if any of you think it might be for you also just talk to one of us. The reality is that none of us has to do huge, great, splashy things to help bring about a new country. One of our reflection group members shared that simple things have a big impact on us. She shared that a person let her proceed first at an intersection and that gave her hope that there were still good people in the world. Now that says two things; one, our culture is so screwed up that a simple gesture of kindness has a great impact and more importantly two how easy it is to make a change toward the better. I think Brian McClaren sums it up well when he writes: “Our choice is clear from the start: If we want to be his disciples, we won’t be able to simply coast along and conform to the norms of our society. We must choose a different definition of well being, a different model of success, a new identity with a new set of values…. ” (Brian D. McLaren, We Make the Road by Walking: A Year Long Quest for Spiritual Formation, Reorientation, and Activation (Jericho Books, 2014), 128–129) So the task before us is pretty simple in action and very profound in impact. Whether it is curtesy at intersections or praying with a friend in Page 15 need, we need to seek Jesus’ love as we build a new country, a heavenly one. If we are to be salt and light, I wonder, how will we dress for action and light our lamps in this coming week? Amen Comments are closed.
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